From Mary's point of view (she told me all this Thursday night), the sentiment was similar. She felt that it was worth meeting me, but she was uncertain how she would entertain this American whipper-snapper on her Tipperary farm. Her son, Padraig, had met me only for one hour, so she didn't have much of a recommendation on my character. Further, I could have ended up being a jerk or, as she put it, "a raging drug-addict".
As things unfolded Wednesday night with the singalong, we mutually decided that we would do some Birdhill explorations on Thursday, and that me staying the night Thursday night was a good idea. As we sat and had our midnight tea (and my second dinner) Thursday night, Mary requested that I stay one more night and told me she would really miss me when I was gone. While I still had quite a bit of adventuring to do, more of Ireland to see, and a decreasing amount of time to do it, I was touched by her kindness and appreciation of our relationship. I couldn't possibly say no.
Friday ended up being a day of rest, reading in the back while watching the cows graze, consistent WiFi access, catching up on the Tigers (this bullpen...), and washing my socks (probably should have brought more than two pair). Mary and Michael had a few errands to run after breakfast, and left me alone on the farm for about two hours. Ever concerned about me getting hungry, here is a picture of how Mary left the kitchen table for me while she was out:
Yes, that is today's local paper so I can read while I eat
When they returned home, I helped Mary hang new curtains in her bedroom (the VERY least I could do to show my appreciation) while Michael built a fire in the sitting room (old school-style with a real fireplace and wood from their farm). We looked at old photo albums, drank a few drops, and marveled at how well we all got along. The mood was bittersweet, as we would part ways indefinitely in the morning.